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E from hlf 2020

Could attend only day 2 of Hyd literature festival 2020 . Lavish buffet for thought…. Paromita , Saba Dewan -new perspectives. Remembering Nabaneeta Dev Sen . Bahar dutt , kalpana Sharma – Rewilding and the need for environmental journalism in the era of bushfires, Delhi smog and massive climate changes. Although , people in urban spaces are also slowly speaking up, there is need for more voices changes for environmental preservation. Paromita and Usha Raman – New digital era – freedoms gained but landscapes lost. We have LOST THE LANGUAGE OF FEELINGS. The blanket of morality…. Is marriage an outdated concept? Stepping beyond binaries into fluidity. Experientiality is most important today ,as shared experiences create lived wisdom. A healthy relationship is not a preset, it should be personalized. Freedom to live his , her or their own life,is its own education. The difficult experiences educate one about what he or she they want in life. Theyyam and kodiyattam – Margi Madhu, Ingu G and Indu Chinta- art as worship , artist as devotee. Landmarks such as schools -memories – tangible heritage. Art forms and cultural traditions are intangible heritages . The kodiyattam artist, Margi Madhu said that practicing for 10 years only made him mimic his guru. He needs 25 years to think, reimagine and develop his own style. Such a dedication is difficult to sustain in contemporary society, where patient audiences are needed to sit through a 2,3 or more hours of performance. Theyyam is not a dance – it is purely ritual – a visual spectacle . The word “Theyyam ” is derived from “daivam ” – God. It refers to both the art and the artist . It is an act of worship, where spectators are more like devotees. Learning is by instruction and imitation. It is a visual spectacle , with ornate hairdressing and face drawing . There are 30 basic patterns which are mixed and matched to create 600 designs. The artist is a mirror in kodiyattam. An optional history of Indian women- Saba Dewan and Paromita Vohra. What is “acceptable” womanhood ? What is “acceptable” creative expression ? Women always set themselves up to impossible ideals, and are constantly in this betwixt and between about wanting to be and should be. Women continue to be defined vis a vis their relationships with men. A woman has a right to be unapologetically herself, without being a flag bearer of anything (i did it or i am this way because i like it , not because so and so happened to me). In an epic the story never ends, it’s ending is only a beginning. Humanising plants is a way of saving them – Nirupa rao -plants of western ghats

Boxes , Labels and Qs

https://www.buzzfeed.com/genamourbarrett/things-single-girls-are-tired-of-hearing?utm_term=.rv6g244aAO#.omrBwLLDY2

http://viralstories.in/breaking-44-typical-indian-stereotypes-stop-presuming-everything/

 

You literally asked me this question two weeks ago. Aren't you tired of asking yet?

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You literally asked me this question two weeks ago. Aren’t you tired of asking yet?

. “Isn’t there someone that you at least like?”

Sorry to disappoint.

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Sorry to disappoint.

. “Why are you still single?”

Do I have to have a special reason? It just is what it is.

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Do I have to have a special reason? It just is what it is.

. “I know you’re probably looking for a partner, but I just want to be friends.”

Just because I'm single doesn't mean I want to date you. Please get over yourself.

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. “You need to stop being so picky.”

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. “Maybe you need to change your attitude.”

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9. “Stop looking for love and let love come to you!”

Life-changing advice. Never heard that before, thank you.

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Life-changing advice. Never heard that before, thank you.

. “When are you going to get married?”

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. “What about kids? Are kids on the cards any time soon?”

What? No. Stop asking that.

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What? No. Stop asking that.

. “Time is running out, you know.”

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. “How long have you actually been single for?”

Does it matter?

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Does it matter?

. “Don’t you get lonely? I’d get so bored if I was single.”

That could be more because you have a boring life than the fact you have a partner, but cool.

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That could be more because you have a boring life than the fact you have a partner, but cool.

 “You should start a new hobby to meet people.”

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. “You need to put yourself out there!”

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. “If you’re not careful, you’ll end up as a crazy cat lady.”

GREAT! I LOVE CATS. They're so fluffy and don't ask stupid questions.

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GREAT! I LOVE CATS. They’re so fluffy and don’t ask stupid questions.

. “I know someone I can set you up with!”

Lord no. Please, no. I'm fine.

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Lord no. Please, no. I’m fine.

 “You should try Tinder/OkCupid/Match.com. Have you tried them? Have you?”

I have received enough dick pics to tell you that yes indeed I have tried them, thanks. Not for me.

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. “There’s plenty of fish in the sea! Speaking of fish, have you joined Plenty of Fish yet?”

Arghhhfsohgehgughehu, go away.

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Arghhhfsohgehgughehu, go away.

. “I think it’s so great you’re so comfortable with being on your own.”

Yeah, thanks, I'm a great inspiration to all of womankind. *rolls eyes*

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Yeah, thanks, I’m a great inspiration to all of womankind. *rolls eyes*

 “Why do girls make such a big fuss over getting a partner anyway?”

Maybe it's because people like you keep asking them when they're going to get one? Maybe.

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Maybe it’s because people like you keep asking them when they’re going to get one? Maybe.

 

    . Because it’s not the dress code here..

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    2. Because there are actually people who are truly self-made..

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    3. Because it doesn’t require a marriage certificate…

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    5. Because it’s travelling a she likes not necessarily binging.

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    6. Because they are as much a part of this country as you and me.

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    7. Because reading could be loved by anyone..

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    8. Because language is only a medium of communication..

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    9. Because they are not the descendants of Jaadu

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    10. Because even we aren’t Italian and still love pizza…

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    11. Because, even Star City is a bike….

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    12. Because being a Punjabi doesn’t stand for Patiala pegs..

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    13. Because a good art can never remain hidden…

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    14. Because ek ladka aur ek ladki sirf dost nahin ho sakte was just a dialogue from a movie….

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    15. Because no doubt girls like to shop but they too like to be self-dependent just as you guys….

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    16. Because fashion is just about defining yourself… Not your definition.

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    17. Because even we are Indians and it’s not our mother tongue either…

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    18. Because even they need to reach for work on time…

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    19. Because being Mother India doesn’t require running about the trees dancing…

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    20. Because doing what you love doesn’t alter your gender…

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    21. Because the RTO didn’t deny license me on the grounds that I’m a female…

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    22. Because poems need a conscious mind…

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    23. Because the canteen also offers other things…

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    24. Because you always have a choice to move elsewhere…

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    . Because respecting women isn’t community specific…

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    27. Because sooti saree is not the precondition to helping the society…

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    28. Because even she filled ‘good handwriting’ books in school…

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    29. Because not all have a questionable taste in music…

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     Because it’s neither fair not lovely to be a racist….

     

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     Because no degree can force you to not take up your dreams…

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    32. Because your taste buds do not know which state you belong to…

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     Because you only marry once and with your own species…

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    . Because if you ever passed your primary school you would know Madrasi is just for Tamil Nadu residents; and that’s just one of the states from South India…

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    . Because Delhi is not an another name for Sick Perverts Club…

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    Because it gets paid to be skilled….

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     Because what people tend to confuse modernism to with short skirts is just westernisation….

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    . Because I could actually uproot a hand-pump and blown your head way…

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    . Because all love comfort over style…it’s not just a phrase…

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    41. Because loving blue doesn’t make you a lesbian….

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    42. Because 10 rupaiye ke liye se jhik jhik even I don’t like….

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    43. Because it doesn’t cost anything to make someone laugh either…

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     Because red is also the colour of danger…

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