http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Double_Life_of_V%C3%A9ronique

is there such a thing as free will, or is it up to a creator of some kind, or is it just a matter of chance that one acts and thinks as one does?

“Well, you’re at a transition point in your life, a time when you can go one way or another, and it’s usually at those times that we look back and try to make some sense of it all, see if we’ve done the right things, if we’ve ended up with the right people. And we remember people who aren’t with us anymore.”“Is that what you do? I mean, do you think about whether you ended up with the right people, wonder if you did the right things?” -LAURA CALDWELL

We can forgive, neutralise, erase; heal negative, traumatic or painful events from our past, but we cannot change the fact that they have actually occurred.